事故后，他拒绝让任何人同情他。

He refused to let anyone ___pity him after the accident.

她同情那个孤独的老人，经常去看望他。

She ___pitied the lonely old man and often visited him.

我们不应该同情那些有能力自助的人。

We should not ___pity those who are capable of helping themselves.