我以为年长的人会更生气，但结果却相反。

I thought the older people would be more offended, but it was ___the ___other ___way ___around.

他们在控制我们，而不是反过来。

They are controlling us, not ___the ___other ___way ___around.

人们常认为金钱带来幸福，但有时却相反。

People often think money brings happiness, but sometimes it's ___the ___other ___way ___around.