她的举止极其优雅得体。

Her manners are incredibly ___refined and always appropriate.

特里明厄姆勋爵不仅是爱德华时代贵族阶层一位高贵且有教养的代表，而且他对利奥也很友善。

Not only is Lord Trimingham a noble and ___refined representative of Edwardian aristocracy, but also he is kind towards Leo.

尽管他很富有，但他缺乏那个圈子所期望的优雅礼仪。

Despite his wealth, he lacked the ___refined etiquette expected in such circles.